20 May Our priest actually allowed us to take the FOCCUS test at home and on our own time. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of. 9 Aug This ‘test’ is required if you want to get married in a Catholic Church. We took it July 21st and our pastor told us it would take about 10 days for. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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I would be surprised if all or whatever questions of you and FI’s matched up, but the next steps are you sit down with our priest in our case, I dunno if that’s everywhere but you discuss the questions. If so it’s not a “test. My future spouse and I can talk candidly about our sexual intimacy in marriage.

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The rest is just hoops that you jump through. The Deacon administered our test. I just wish we were geting more actual counseling from the priest. This includes attitudes and expectations about money, sex, communication, household roles, etc.

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The questions are soooooo ambigious and badly focus, and every single question you wrote “uncertain” on was probably flagged as unmatching. Maybe I’ll have to call and ask. It was just a conversation starter for me and FI! Facilitator training prepares facilitators and mentor couples to administer, interpret and discuss FOCCUS Inventory results with couples. It’s a really good tool.


Our priest gave us our responses, went over some highlights, and then let us go through the rest on our own.

I answered Uncertain a lot which turns out not focccus be good. We went over questions we disagreed on. Get the best wedding inspiration, advice, and more from Weddingbee. I would ask for more help from your church.


You can’t really fail it so even if you have areas that are a flag for concern this means that these are areas you need to working on together as a couple. Spring 10 years ago Wedding: I know it is not a test as that is why I put it into quotation marks. I agree to receive emails from the site. Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave fkccus some guidance.

Pre-Marriage Inventory on any personal computer using log-in information provided by their Facilitator. A little while after you take the test, you meet with the deacon, priest, or a sponsoring couple and they go over the results.

Not too worried about that part for myself, but I’m really curious what happens when it does! So maybe around that time?


They have a chart that says what typical answers “should” be and if deviate from tsst typical answer, they ask you questions about it. Knubbsy-Wubbsy 7 years ago Wedding: We took ours a while back and there are a LOT of questions! November No, do NOT be nervous!

Afterwards, the results are shredded because they don’t want you ruminating over the questions No, do NOT be nervous! A D U I sometimes focccus that this may not be the right person for me to marry.

Our retreat isn’t until January. I live right across the church I am getting married at. August sig challenge: Catholic Weddings New Discussion. It sounds as though you are sacrificing your fundamental religious beliefs for your fiance, and that you are not ok with it and neither would I — proud Athiest married to another Athiest.

We FAILED Foccus.

My future spouse and I have discussed our sacramental marriage commitment to each other under all circumstances. If your answers were completely different it probably does mean you and your Fiance have a lot of talking to do about issues that will affect your lives as a couple, cause you probably have very different ways of approaching things. Not scared or nervous, just like did you get my results, I took the test.